I do believe that all of you must have ever seen a match between 2 teams, which consists of more than 2 people in each
Football, basketball, etc
In each team, there will be some backup players
As it can be clearly understood, their function is for replacing the main players if there is something happen
These backup players usually takes place in the corner of the field
They will never be brought into the light, unless they take over the position of the main player
Don`t you think it such cruel?
They just sit and watch the game, waiting for their turn if they had one
Moreover, when they finally get the chance to get into the match, do you really think it`s wonderful?
Correct me if I`m wrong
There`s nothing fun in being a replacer
Why? Because you will be compared to the previous player
It`s such a delight if you can play better than the previous one
What if you don`t?
People will never stop comparing
People will never stop thinking highly of the previous player
See?
In work life, sometimes such shit happens even when you`re not expecting
You leave your previous job and you enter a new company
You replace someone there
At first, everything seems alright
Until one day you hear a person say,
"The previous one is better"
And it dramatically happen when you`ve done your best to finish all the tasks and adapting to new circumstance
Now, I`m gonna make it clear
No one, I repeat
NO ONE in this world will be happy with comparison
Especially when you already tried your best and get nothing in return except those comparisons
We all trained to compare, not simply value and respect each individual
Finally, this conclusion came up in my mind
Whatever you do, people will always have something to say
Whatever you do, there will always be pro and contra
You can`t dismiss it
Keep in your mind that:
The only thing you need to beat up or compared is YOURSELF
Be the best version of you, let the comparison makes you stronger than ever
Compare yourself now to yourself in last week, month, year, etc
Even when you quit your job and become a part of new company, make sure that you learn something new for your self improvement
Not just for pleasing your boss or coworkers
In the end, no one is responsible for your progress unless yourself
In the end, it`s only about you
In the end, people will see your shine even when surrounded by so many comparisons
For those backup players, I admire you !
:)
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